tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7198290.post114373907521670455..comments2012-03-14T20:26:25.597-07:00Comments on Searching for the Needle: Is there a "nice" way to say "no?"Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7198290.post-1152133324671514932006-07-05T14:02:00.000-07:002006-07-05T14:02:00.000-07:00Hey, just enjoying some of your archived posts. I ...Hey, just enjoying some of your archived posts. I like your writing.<BR/><BR/>You did the right thing. He's a big boy, he can handle the rejection.Clintonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03260533232505457794noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7198290.post-1143760890955765552006-03-30T15:21:00.000-08:002006-03-30T15:21:00.000-08:00Damn!!! I know how that guy felt. I've been there ...Damn!!! I know how that guy felt. I've been there so many times. Each time it gets better though as self-confidence grows. I now understand how hard it is for the girl to turn down the guy. I must commend you for not leading him on.HOUSTONIANhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06357125033679224117noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7198290.post-1143744329690802752006-03-30T10:45:00.000-08:002006-03-30T10:45:00.000-08:00i think you did the right thing. you were direct ...i think you did the right thing. you were direct and honest, and cushioned it with a "thanks for asking." better to not lead him on.<BR/><BR/>why is it always the guys we *don't* want who have the guts to ask us out?Anna May Won'thttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12083288468853698567noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7198290.post-1143740742599053372006-03-30T09:45:00.000-08:002006-03-30T09:45:00.000-08:00Wow, that was gutsy of him! Seems like most men w...Wow, that was gutsy of him! Seems like most men would have waited until farther into the class, when you knew each other better. I commend him for his cajones.<BR/><BR/>That's how my Boy and I got together. He asked me out. I said no, because I wasn't interested and didn't think he was my type.<BR/><BR/>But he didn't give up. And eventually, I got to know him better, and liked him more and teahousehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06222848511993932548noreply@blogger.com