tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7198290.post1030304080362228515..comments2012-03-14T20:26:25.597-07:00Comments on Searching for the Needle: Question tonesUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7198290.post-66442241753792824972007-02-20T16:37:00.000-08:002007-02-20T16:37:00.000-08:00Pandax: pre-coffee date e-mail chit chat mileage v...Pandax: pre-coffee date e-mail chit chat mileage varies depending on who I'm talking to and the chemistry that's flowing between us.<BR/><BR/>I personally prefer meeting sooner than later, but if I feel like the girl is shy or seems to prefer a slower pace, I will hang in there for 5+ e-mails before asking to meet in person.<BR/><BR/>Rule of thumb is you will learn more about someone meeting themClintonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03260533232505457794noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7198290.post-74934101400213528972007-02-20T08:57:00.000-08:002007-02-20T08:57:00.000-08:00i agree with zerodoll that it's better to discuss ...i agree with zerodoll that it's better to discuss such things in person, after a few meetings if you hit it off. i personally HATE dragging out an email relationship.<BR/><BR/>the right number of email exchanges is different for everyone, but for me it seems to be 2 or 3. after that, i get bored.<BR/><BR/>i think you're totally right that someone who wants to prolong the virutal relationship isAnna May Won'thttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12083288468853698567noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7198290.post-18632993252042259722007-02-20T05:21:00.000-08:002007-02-20T05:21:00.000-08:00This also stirs up the questions of how long to e-...This also stirs up the questions of how long to e-mail each other before meeting. This is why I feel like a little something beyond chit chat would be helpful to gauge whether they're really interesting (and interesting to me). At the same time, I don't like getting into full on discussions by e-mail. It kind of makes me feel like the person might be hiding something... that is they want me to Pandaxhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00889225111594518807noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7198290.post-74959859674389811172007-02-19T15:20:00.000-08:002007-02-19T15:20:00.000-08:00i think you have to cut to it and meet. you can't...i think you have to cut to it and meet. you can't even get into serious relationship talk on the first few dates, really!zerodollhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09093768792421408179noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7198290.post-76917915305650721052007-02-19T11:13:00.000-08:002007-02-19T11:13:00.000-08:00given my limited experience with online dating, I ...given my limited experience with online dating, I don't think I asked any questions in particular. But then, I wasn't taking it all that seriously, either.<BR/><BR/>the email exchanges I had all revolved around the stuff we did. He may ask "any big plans for the weekend?", and i'd reply with "I'm thinking of going to six flags this weekend with friends. Do you like roller coasters?" And then shanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14793492151690232688noreply@blogger.com